TheEssenceofHappess
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IlivethendofDisney，Hollywoodandyearroundsun.Youaythkpeoplesuchagoro，funfilledpcearehappierthanothers.Ifso，youhavesoistakesaboutthenatureofhappess.
Manytelligentpeoplestillequatehappesswithfun.Thetruthisthatfunandhappesshavelittleornothgon.Funiswhatweexperiencedurganact.Happessiswhatweexperieeranact.Itisdeeper，oreabidgeotion.
Theeopleclgtothebeliefthatafunfilled，pafreelifeequalshappessactuallydiishestheircesofeverattagrealhappess.Iffunandpleasureareequatedwithhappess，thenpatbeequatedwithunhappess.Butfact，theoppositeistrue：Moretisthannot，thgsthatleadtohappessvolvesopa.
Asaresult，anypeopleavoidtheveryendeavorsthatarethesourceoftreehappess.Theyfearthepaevitablybroughtbysuchthgsasarriage，raisgchildren，professionalachievent，religioitnt，civicorcharitablework，andself-iprovent.
Askabachelorwhyheresistsarriageeventhoughhefdsdatgtobelessandlesssatisfyg.Ifhe’sho，hewilltellyouthatheisafraidofakgaitnt.Foritntisfahovent，buttheyarenotitsostdistguishgfeatures.
Siirly，upleswhochoosenottohavechildrenaredecidgfavorofpalessfunoverpafulhappess.Theydeoutwheheywant，travelwherevertheywantandsleepasteastheywant.Coupleswithfantchildrenareckytogetawholenight’ssleeporathree-dayvakgthetobedatnight.Theyneverknowthejoyofwatchgachildgrowuporofpygwithagrandchild.
Buttheseforsoffundonotntributeanywaytoyhappess.Moredifficultendeavors—writg，raisgchildren，creatgdeepretionshipwithywife，trygtodogoodtheworld—willbrgorehappessthaneverbefoundfun，thatleastperahgs.
Uandgagthattruehappesshasnothgtodowithfunisoneoftheostliberatgrealizationsweevereto.Itliberatesti：nowwedevoteorehourstoactivitiesthatgenuelycreaseourhappess.Itliberatesoney：buygthatnewcarorthosefancyclothesthatwilldonothgtocreaseourhappessnowseespotless.Anditliberatesfroenvy：wenowuandthatallthoropeopleweweresosurearehappybecaetheyarealwayshavgsouchfunactuallyaynotbehappyatall.
Theontweuandthatfundoesnhappess，webegantoleadourlivesdifferently.Theeffectbe，quiteliterally，lifetransf.
我住在好莱坞迪斯尼乐园，那里全年阳光普照。你可能认为生活在那么富于魅力，充满乐趣的地方，一定比其他地方的人更幸福。如果这么想，你可能对幸福的真谛有些误解。
很多聪明的人仍将幸福等同于乐趣。其实，乐趣和幸福的共同之处极少，或者说根本就没有。乐趣是行为过程中的感受，而幸福是我们行为过后的感受，它是一种更为深刻、持久的感情。
人们坚信充满欢乐，远离痛苦的生活方式就等于幸福。实际上，这样反而减少了他们获得真正幸福的机会。如果欢乐和愉快等同幸福，那痛苦就等同不幸。其实恰恰相反，多数情况下，能带来幸福的事物往往包含诸多痛苦。
所以说，许多人所逃避的艰难困苦恰恰是真正幸福的源泉。这些人害怕那些必定会带来痛苦的事情，如结婚、抚养子女、提高专业技能、承担宗教义务、社会服务或慈善事业，提升自我等。
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