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PleaseexceifI’alittlepeoday.Markisleavg，andI’feelgkdofsad.
Youprobablydon’tknowMark，butyouightbeckyenoughtoknowsoolikehi.He’sbeentheheartandsouloftheofficeforaupleofyears，bgexepryprofessionalskillswithasweetnaturealedisposition.He’sneverbeenallthatterestedgettgcreditfortheterrificworkhedoes.Hejtwantstodohisjob，andtodoitsuperblywell.
Andnowhe’sovgontoagnewprofessionalopportunity.Itsoundslikeituldbetheceofalifeti，andwe’regenuely，scerelypleasedforhi.Butthatdoesn’takeitanyeasiertosaygoodbyetoadearfriendandtrtedlleague.
Lifehasawayofthrogthesecurveballsat.Jtwhearttogetfortablewithaperson，apceorasituation，sothgesalongtoaltertherecipe.Aterrifieighborovesaway.Achildthefailygraduates.Anotherchildfdsnewloveandloyaltiesthrougharriage.Thefaily’sprcipalbreadnerisidoff.
Ourabilitytopewithgeanddisruptioeres，toagreatdegree，ourpeace，happessandlife.
Buthowdowedothat？Philosophershavensideredthequestionforturies，andtheirresponseshavebeenvaried.AtotheauthoroftheBiblicalbookofElesiastes，fortbefoundrebergthat“toeverythgthereisaseason，andatitoeverypurposeuheheaven”.KahlilGibranurgedhislisteo“lettodayebracethepastwithrebrance，andthefuturewithlongg”.
Afriendofewhoworksforthegovernntisfondhisfellowbureaucratsthat“survivabilitydependsuponadaptability”.Andthenthere’sChris，theCaliforniasurf-rat，whoooldthattheaolife’sproblesbesudupfourwords：“Gowiththeflow.”
“It’slikesurfg，”Chrisexped，“You’taheo.Wavesjthappen.Youridethewheretheytakeyou.Sure，you’realwayshopgfortheperfectwavewhereyouget，butostlyyoujttakethethewaytheye.”
I’lysure，butIthkChriswassaygthatlifeisaseriesofevents—bothgoodandbad.Noatterhowdeftyouranizationalskills，therewillalwaysbelife-fencgfactorsoverwhichyouhavenontrol.Thetrulysuessfulpersonexpectstheued，andispreparedtoakeadjtntsshouldtheneedarise—asitalostalwaysdoes.
We’regogtoissMark，jtlikeyou’llissthatneighbor，thatgraduate，orthatnewlywed.Butratherthandwellonthesadnessofourpartg，we’llfoourhopesforabrighterfuture—forhi，andfor.Andthenwe’llgooutanddoeverythgwetoakethatfuturehappen.
如果今天我有些哀伤，请原谅，因为马克要走了，我有些难过。
或许你不知道马克是谁，但你得知道，认识像马克这样的人是很荣幸的。几年来，他一直是公司里的核心人物，不但性情温文尔雅，就连职业技能也堪称典范。他工作出色，但这绝不是为谋求个人荣誉。他只是喜欢自己的工作，想把工作做到最好。
现在，他就要奔赴一个难得的新工作岗位了。这个工作机会听来就像是百年一遇之良机。当然，我们由衷地为他感到高兴，但向一位挚友、一个值得信赖的同事挥手道别又绝非易事。
生活向我们抛来这样的曲线球自有其道理。就在我们刚刚熟悉某人、某地或某种情形时，生活就会发生某种变化，一改这种和谐的局面。这就像一个极好的邻居搬走了；家中的一个孩子从学校毕业了，而另一个结了婚，找到了新的爱情和忠诚；家里的顶梁柱失业了，等等。
我们的心态是否平和，我们过得是否幸福、对生活是否满足，在很大程度上，都取决于我们应对变化和变革的能力。
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